What better place than an online dating site to be “extra” when describing yourself. There aren’t many situations where it is acceptable to exclusively talk about yourself and the values you uphold to random strangers.
Not everyone wants to listen to what some might deem as blatant narcissism. But when you are on a spiral chase for the love of your life, you have to put out your best character descriptions foward. You have to perfectly explain yourself, what you love, what movies get you drooling; what foods replenish your taste bud, your favorite kind of music and your kind of partner.
It is very normal to talk as much as you want to about yourself and the kind of date you want on online dating sites. But how well are you writing your profile? In this article, we will be guiding you through the process.
The most important virtue one can uphold is the truth. Being original has a way of connecting to the core of people reading your profile. The key to writing a seamlessly impressive dating profile is to be truthful and specific about who you are. Don’t tailor your writing towards what you feel people will like to read or hear. Don’t be generic about yourself, carve out a creative way to tell the world that you are real, original and down to earth. You don’t want to confuse your dates.
Cut out the rejects
Writing your profile means that you have the full creative capacity over the writing. This also means that you can nix out all the unwanted. However truthful you can be about your profile, you don’t want to put yourself totally out really. You are a work in progress.
Also, it is very smart to put out what you are not looking for in your prospective dates. If you cannot condone arrogance, or greed or cannot manage to be around people who smoke or drink, you have to shamelessly state them so that the dating community can see you for who you are.
The more specific you are, the better.
Channel your inner wordsmith
Everyone wants someone who can charm them with words. Coming across boring, bland and bare profiles means I will be moving on to the next. Write creatively, although you don’t have to use rhyme schemes or meters to write creative profiles. Explore your inner writing power to write terrific profiles that will blow your readers away. Spoil your readers to a little stylistic flair and watch your profile bloom.
Charm your readers
After all, is said and done, what will be left is how much breath is left in your reader’s nose. Did you just blow them away? No? Yes? Would you date the person on your profile if you read what you wrote on someone else’s profile? Charm your dating community into seeing you are a paragon of awesomeness.